So, you’ve been reading about financial domination (FinDom) and think you might want to delve into it. It’s not just being mean to men and getting them to fork over the cash. You need finesse, personality, and just the right of control. It’s an art and a science. Here are some tips on how to make it big in FinDom.
You Need to Work For It
First off, you’re going to need to work for it. Sitting around is never how you earn money. There’s actually a lot of work that goes into this craft, if you do it properly. You find yourself working a lot of hours on many different types of things. You won’t be compensated for everything you do, but it will all add up to more money in your pocket if you do it right. Successful FinDommes own homes, go on expensive trips, and have nice bank accounts that in many cases are 100% funded by their subs.
Unless you have the money to pay a graphics person, you will have to create all your own graphics, content, designs, photos, videos, etc. You will need all these tools to sell yourself on a website or social media.
If you have your own site, you need to find a merchant who will give you an account to make payments, unless you use website hosting service (like Clips4Sale) and then pay a percentage. Don’t accept Paypal, since they shut down accounts with anything slightly to do with the adult industry. Greendot Money Pak and cold hard cash are good ways to go, if you’re not being paid through a site.
Also, if you have a website, you will need to blog. Active blog posting helps sell your services through SEO and advertising. Additionally, you can give a sub info about yourself so they’re not wasting your time. Make sure to use social media like Twitter and Instagram to promote yourself. View this as a career and be serious like any job. It’s not part-time.
You can’t be naïve or shy. You must also be confident or at least exude confidence. You’re in charge here and they’re just “a wallet”. You still need to have some level of approachability — come at a sub with a level of respect and don’t be bratty right off the bat. Never be fake or use the word “need”— say you want something.
Professional or Amateur: It’s Your Choice
You can also be a professional dominatrix and do sessions where you dominate men. Professional Dommes don’t have sex with their clients— they don’t need to. They charge so much per hour and many can also do the FinDom thing by demanding a large trip (or as they are more commonly referred to as a tribute). You can also make money by teaching others to Domme—many Domintrixes had a mentor that they interned for or paid to help them with their education of the craft.
Make sure you get your money up front. If they want to talk to you for free, that won’t fly. They have to give you a tribute. They pay to talk to you, and your time equates to money. You might want to give them a few minutes, but beyond that, they have to pay to play. Go for the successful men, the real high rollers who work in Fortune 500 companies and finance. But don’t guilt men into giving you money or gifts—it never works and makes you look weak (the opposite of what you want to be viewed as). You have goals and you’re much more than a hustler.
Of course, there are things you won’t do. Unlike a porn star or webcam model, you don’t have to get naked or cater to someone’s fetish. You are relying on your looks to bring men in initially, but you keep them by convincing them to worship and serve you. You also don’t have to get on webcam to perform or talk to them. But you can charge them per minute rate and also insist on a large tip on a service like Niteflrt. And if a slave/sub gives you a tribute, post it online. It makes them feel better even if you add something like “this loser could have done better”.
Remember nothing in life is free, even for FinDom’s – there’s always give and take. Good luck!