Before we start I’d just like to say thank you for speaking to us here at Monthly Fetish and providing us your perspective on ASMR fetish. Now, ASMR is a fairly new phenomenon in the fetish world, and there are those of us who were very much aware of your presence in the industry before ASMR exploded. So for those who do not know you, we’ll start with some background. How long have you been involved in the fetish world and how did it all start for you?
First of all let Me thank you for the invitation to speak at Monthly Fetish. ASMR is a really interesting topic to discuss, So I will try My best to share My knowledge and experience here. Funny to admit that My “fetish career” started long time before the term “ASMR” was created and surprisingly even back in 2003 or so when I was starting to produce My first fetish content I’m pretty sure it had an ASMR effect and that was the point some customers came back again and again. I started with making Fingernail Fetish videos and as being a cam model. I’m sure it’s pretty much common thing for many Fetish producers.
I happened to notice a page on your website where people can apply to be your slave. That suggests that Femdom and FinDom are probably what you’re most known for? Is that true, and is dominance something that comes naturally to you? When did you discover that Femdom was something you were good at?
I’d say that dominance comes naturally or it’s not dominance at all. There is a big difference between being a Domme, and wanna-be a Domme. The former comes out easily and require a huge level of responsibility and people around feel it. The later is very well noticed and in the end doesn’t give any satisfaction neither to so-called Domme, nor to a Sub. I can say I was born dominant, I was brought up dominant and I have always been taking advantage of that. I really made all My boyfriends feel submissive in My presence. Not only that. I remember how I’ve met My first real life slave: he just approached Me in the cafe while I was traveling in Europe! Later while doing cam shows I realized that Femdom in it’s classic aspects is something I feel comfortable with rather than being sweet vanilla girl.
ASMR stands for Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response, and is described as a feeling of well-being combined with a tingling sensation in the scalp and down the back of the neck. When did you first become aware of ASMR and when did you decide that it was something you wanted to try?
As I mentioned before, that sensation wasn’t new neither for Me nor for My clients. However, I think that the first time I had this sensation was when My teacher scratched a black board with her fingernail while writing with a chalk. It was pretty similar to ASMR despite the fact it was a very strong and unpleasant feeling rather than well-being. Also I have been wearing long fingernails since I was in high school, I remember one girl constantly been asking Me to gently touch her arm with My nails describing ASMR reaction to that “magic touch”. Then I was often told that the feeling and sound of My nails is giving a strange and pleasant feeling. Not only that. During My long (and I suspect that 15+ years is rather long) fetish career I realized that the way I talk, the way I move, the way I do things can become a real ASMR trigger for someone. I’m shamelessly using it.
How do you decide which type of ASMR clips to shoot? Is it something that you research beforehand or is it more of a trial and error approach where you find some things work and some things don’t?
As I’ve just mentioned I’m often using ASMR triggers in My videos. It just comes out naturally. I’m not making any specific research. There is always a trigger that might work for one and don’t work for others. We all are very different. However, I prefer filming content that gives Me a true “braingasm” when I start editing it). In other words, all things that I film will find it’s client sooner or later, however, I firstly choose to film the ones that please Me.
I’ve taken a look at your Clips4Sale studio and after getting instantly distracted and checking out everything else (because it’s hard not to) I took a look at your ASMR clips. So I think I probably already know the answer to this question, but which do you find to be the most popular ASMR that you shoot? I’m guessing nail tapping, is it nail tapping?
Oh, looks like you had a bit of fun getting ready to this interview. I’m sure you are aware to the fact that scrolling video previews is a very common visual ASMR trigger. I think that would be the most popular ASMR. Ok, jokes apart, I’d say that nail-involved ASMRs were the oldest, but the most popular is still My voice in general.
The beauty of ASMR is that it could be literally anything that provokes the sensation in any given individual. So are there other ideas that you’ve played around with for ASMR clips, and if so, could you tell us a few of them? I don’t know why but I keep thinking the crushing of breakfast cereal could be a good one? Or if you mic up a hairbrush the sound of long hair being brushed could be another? I don’t know, but it I think it could be fun experimenting with this stuff?
Yes, I completely agree! It can be just anything. You have already mentioned nail tapping, I mentioned the sound and visual triggers. For example – the process of doing make up, especially applying lipstick. You are absolutely correct – the sound of hair brush on My hair is an absolute YES (I even have those who request videos of that kind). Do you know that a true long hair admirer feels the difference between the sound of different hair brushes? Also high heel tapping, the sound of nylons, the sound of silk, silver bracelets… I can go on with the list – it’s endless!
Do you combine ASMR with other fetishes? The effect is almost mesmerizing so do you think you could combine it with mesmerize fetish, and then maybe FinDom?
Absolutely. I think it’s a must. And as I mentioned before it’s exactly what I’m shamelessly doing in My videos. It’s a combination of sound and visual triggers which works the best inside the topic I’ve chosen for filming. Especially Findom. I call ASMR a “braingasm” – that is something that makes your mind feel good, excited and makes you want to come back for more. Isn’t it what people are searching for in fetish clips? All sort of pleasures, the more at once is the better. So ASMR always adds peculiarity.
Which sounds, if any, have the ASMR effect on you Daria?
Oh well, I do have My moments… I’m absolutely a cat person. The sound of My cat purring in combination of touching his soft fur is my absolute favorite. I can spend hours enjoying it. The most amazing thing – just My cat gives Me that feeling!
Getting away from ASMR what does the future hold for you? What are your plans for the coming year?
I have a feeling that a new year of a Piggy is going to be extremely exciting for Me. Don’t even ask Me why, it just happens to be that I’m always correct in My feelings). Actually I’m still thinking on new ideas, My mind keeps working like crazy. However, I’d probably have to slow down a bit for not to lose the emotional balance. To work less and to get more is the perfect scheme that works great for Me. Not sure how it will be since I have a lot of personal plans for 2019. Time will show.
Thanks for taking the time to talk to Monthly Fetish, Daria, where can people find you online and on social media?
Thank you for invitation, it was a pleasure to participate in the discussion. You can always visit My Clips4Sale store (in case you need more of Goddess Daria, I know you do!) at: Darias Fetish KingDom and follow Me on Twitter @GoddessDariaS for not to miss all the updates. My page SimplyGoddessDaria.com could answer most of the questions one might have… Don’t hesitate to have a look.